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Sex and Dating

Signs Your Guy is Gay

by Kaneisha on November 26, 2009

I have dated gay men. Obviously, I didn’t know they were gay at the time. I eventually found out because they told me—or someone who had the inside scoop did. However, in retrospect, there were some tell-tale signs that I ignored. Your Guy Might be Gay if… You think he is gay. With every gay [...]

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Kaneisha, The guy I was dating is 26 and so am I. We met about 6 months ago and hit it off. Our work schedules are polar opposites and we live about 25 miles away from each other. Overall, our personalities are a match and we have the same sense of humor with amazing chemistry [...]

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Dear Kaneisha, I love your blog, I read it almost everyday and so do the girls in my office! Kaneisha, I need advice. I am a newly-wed lady who is in a very happy marriage. We dated for about four years and lived together for 2 of the four years before we got hitched and [...]

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10 Questions to Never Ask a Man

by Kaneisha on November 18, 2009

I’m a curious gal, and I’ve made the mistake of asking some crazy questions. Here are 10 of my all-time favorite crazy questions that me or my friends have actually asked back in our Dating Dummy days: What’s wrong? I know something’s wrong. Even though we women see this as being caring and sympathetic, men [...]

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Confessions of a Former Gender Warrior

by Kaneisha on November 13, 2009

Are you enlisted in the war that pits women against men? Read my guest post at Cornering Cupid to find out!

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How to Get Your Ex Back

by Kaneisha on November 13, 2009

For those of you who may not remember, my boyfriend Mr. C told me that he didn’t know what he wanted, and we broke up. I have broken my vow of privacy to update my readers on what happened, because when I’m struggling with a dating dilemma, I am always so inspired by a story [...]

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No More Crying on the Inside

by Kaneisha on November 9, 2009

Sometimes, I’ll follow dating advice with my actions but not with my thoughts. For example, I like the advice in The Rules that advises women against pursuing men by calling them. If it has been a day or two since I’ve heard from my special guy, instead of going about my life, writing, doing my [...]

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The Five Love Languages

by Kaneisha on November 7, 2009

Different things make people feel loved. If you’re in a relationship and have been feeling like your love tank is empty, it is very likely that you and your partner speak two different love languages. The problem is that people tend to love others in the language that matters to them, rather than loving people [...]

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Dating Advice You Should Ignore

by Kaneisha on November 5, 2009

We women love to talk through our problems and dish out advice. We’re there for each other during good times and bad, and it makes perfect sense that we would look to our girlfriends for help and guidance in our dating lives. However, it’s important to beware of times when your girlfriends’ advice is exactly [...]

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Don’t Move in with That Man!

by Kaneisha on November 1, 2009

If marriage is important to you, do not move in with your boyfriend. Whether you’ve been dating for six months, two years, or even longer than that, moving in with your boyfriend does not represent progress in a relationship. It represents you letting go of something that is probably important to you—getting married! You should [...]

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