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5 Ways to be Less Needy

by Kaneisha on January 21, 2010

One of the biggest turn-ons to a guy is a confident, happy, independent woman. However, even those of us who think of ourselves as fabulous, accomplished women can act needy and clingy sometimes. Here are some tactics to use when you think that you are being too needy with your man. 5 Ways to be [...]

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“Find Love Online” Coaching Giveaway!

by Kaneisha on December 21, 2009

What You’ll Win: an hour-long one-on-one “Find Love Online” coaching session with Kaneisha where I will: help you go from disappointed to delighted with online dating critique your online dating profile to make sure that you are putting your best face forward to attract high-quality guys and/or gals help you write a winning profile Teach [...]

Why Black Women Avoid Interracial Dating

by Kaneisha on December 21, 2009

Despite the bleak statistics regarding Black women and marriage, many Black women still refuse to date non-Black men. Looking back on my own experience refusing to date non-Black guys for years (admittedly after a slew of white and Latino boyfriends), there are a plethora of reasons we tell ourselves for why we should hold out [...]

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Why So Many Fabulous Black Women are Lonely

by Kaneisha on December 17, 2009

Helena Andrews is 29, fabulous, and lonely. Her soon-to-be-published book will be made into a movie of the same name, Bitch is the New Black, and will chronicle her struggles to find lasting love as a professional Black woman in DC. Read the Washington Post article “Successful, Black and Lonely” here profiling Helena Andrews. While [...]

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Sharing Space with Your Man

by Kaneisha on December 5, 2009

I’ll be flying out on Friday to Los Angeles to go stay with Mr. C for five nights. It’s the longest we will have ever shared the same space. I’m actually kind of nervous! So I decided to write a post and give myself some advice. I’ve created a list of do’s and don’ts for [...]

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What to Do When Your Boyfriend Meets Your Parents

by Kaneisha on December 3, 2009

Back in September, I invited Mr. C to come home with me for Thanksgiving. “I’ll think about it,” he said, and didn’t mention it again for two months. Then, one day, while planning out our next visit to see one another, he said, “Well, I guess I better start looking at flights to Austin for [...]

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Why You’re Still Single

by Kaneisha on November 27, 2009

You’re beautiful. You’re smart. You have a Masters degree (or two). You have flat abs and white teeth. You volunteer. You play volleyball—and flag football! You own a car and have your own house. You’ve travelled around the world. You floss every day. Your panties and bras match. Why then are you still single?! I’ll [...]

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Signs Your Guy is Gay

by Kaneisha on November 26, 2009

I have dated gay men. Obviously, I didn’t know they were gay at the time. I eventually found out because they told me—or someone who had the inside scoop did. However, in retrospect, there were some tell-tale signs that I ignored. Your Guy Might be Gay if… You think he is gay. With every gay [...]

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Ask Kaneisha: I told my bf to get lost, but I didn’t mean it!

by Kaneisha on November 23, 2009

Kaneisha, The guy I was dating is 26 and so am I. We met about 6 months ago and hit it off. Our work schedules are polar opposites and we live about 25 miles away from each other. Overall, our personalities are a match and we have the same sense of humor with amazing chemistry [...]

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10 Questions to Never Ask a Man

by Kaneisha on November 18, 2009

I’m a curious gal, and I’ve made the mistake of asking some crazy questions. Here are 10 of my all-time favorite crazy questions that me or my friends have actually asked back in our Dating Dummy days: What’s wrong? I know something’s wrong. Even though we women see this as being caring and sympathetic, men [...]

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