Our breakup isn’t good or bad. It just is. And my making the breakup about me rather than just seeing it as yet another impermanent part of life is what is really causing me to suffer. I know I said a few posts ago that I didn’t take the breakup personally. And I really thought I didn’t. But obviously I did. Very personally.
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Mr. C and I broke up…again. It’s like the saga of Carrie and Mr. Big–without the rich, fabulous life in NYC part. And believe me, I will not be dragging out any relationship drama with anybody for 10 years–or anything close to that. One of my good girlfriends asked me how I found the courage [...]
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I’ll be flying out on Friday to Los Angeles to go stay with Mr. C for five nights. It’s the longest we will have ever shared the same space. I’m actually kind of nervous! So I decided to write a post and give myself some advice. I’ve created a list of do’s and don’ts for [...]
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This weekend, I made a fantastic discovery that has rocked my world. Mr. C and I went out with a small group of my friends to Austin’s local bars and clubs. After spending half an hour annihilating virtual animals on Big Buck Hunter (I get real Texan when I go home to Austin. I don’t [...]
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The most dreaded words in a relationship are “We need to talk.” It always means you’re about to get the break-up talk. I know this phrase well, having used it and heard it several times in my dating life. But there’s a second phrase, one that isn’t as clear but also strikes panic in many [...]
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“I enjoyed talking tonight. I missed hearing the many sides of your voice. When you’re sad, when you get feisty, your happy voice, your surprised voice, when you say ‘Oh, dear!’ and ‘That’s nice…’ I got to hear all of them tonight, and I enjoyed it.” – Mr. C Maybe this whole long distance thing [...]
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