by Kaneisha on October 30, 2009
Often I’ll read or learn some new dating insight that will just blow my mind—and then be really frustrated that I didn’t know this valuable tool or strategy before things went sour. The wonderful thing is that when you learn something new—be it from this blog, The Rules, or Why Men Love Bitches, you can [...]
by Kaneisha on October 29, 2009
Men can be really frustrating sometimes. In my Dating Dummy days, I’ve been known to cry, curse, and throw tantrums when men started acting foolishly. I let myself get worked up over the situation and then let it all out—right in front of the guys. It was never pretty. I’ve since learned that letting loose [...]
by Kaneisha on October 16, 2009
I believe in acting like what you want has already been given to you. I’m pretty sure I want to be famous, so I think I shall start protecting myself as a famous person would. Famous people never win when they tell people about their love lives. If the press catches wind of a new [...]
by Kaneisha on October 15, 2009
The most dreaded words in a relationship are “We need to talk.” It always means you’re about to get the break-up talk. I know this phrase well, having used it and heard it several times in my dating life. But there’s a second phrase, one that isn’t as clear but also strikes panic in many [...]
by Kaneisha on October 12, 2009
Ask Kaneisha video responses are back! Liked this advice? You can buy the supplies needed to act on this advice by clicking on the pictures: A copy of All the Rules a kitchen timer
by Kaneisha on September 30, 2009
Our second question in the Ask Kaneisha series comes from the beautiful island of Martinique! “What do you do when your boyfriend wants you to cut all your male friends out because he thinks they may be a potential threat for your relationship? He doesn’t believe in male/female friendship and cuts out almost all his female friends [...]
by Kaneisha on September 19, 2009
If you have started to notice your husband or boyfriend growing a belly or even the dreaded “man boobs,” you may be considering whether you should encourage him to lose weight. Before whipping him into shape, consider the following points. 1. He already knows he is fat. While weight gain can sneak up on you, [...]
by Kaneisha on September 15, 2009
After a month or two of steady dates, you will feel very comfortable with the person you’re dating. The two of you will settle into a pattern of sleeping over at one another’s place a few times a week. You may not be saying “I love you” yet or even be full-fledged boyfriend and [...]
by Kaneisha on May 29, 2009
The one STD scare I had was enough for a lifetime. When I was a junior in college, an abnormal pap smear hinted at HPV, and I thought my life was over—especially after a few hours spent conducting searches on Google Images. Several tests and exams later, I was given the “all clear” by my [...]