by Kaneisha on October 22, 2011
Right now, I’m writing to you all from my hotel room at Blogalicious 2011 in Washington DC, and I just had to come out of my cocoon of book-writing and admissions coaching wilderness to write a post, because I am astounded at the fact that 1) I have never been to a conference that wasn’t [...]
by Kaneisha on August 12, 2011
CrazyGirl Nation Reader Question: Ok, so i know you get a million emails about this but I’m having issues with my boyfriend. He has stopped respecting me, he is rude and crude and does things that are inappropriate. He ditches me and makes me feel bad about it. All my friends tell me to ditch [...]
by Kaneisha on July 27, 2011
Reader Question: Hi, my name is Pallavi and I am from India! I read your articles and follow your blog and I think its super cool! Well, I have a problem. I have been dating my guy for over two years now. And in these two years, he hasn’t gifted me a thing. Every time [...]
by Kaneisha on July 20, 2011
CrazyGirl Nation Reader Question: Hey there! I’ve recently stumbled across your site and I seriously adore it! I actually don’t feel so out of place anymore because not a lot of my friends understand my ”crazy girl” tendencies…they seem so mellowed out in their relationships while I’m a raving child sometimes… I was wondering if [...]
by Kaneisha on July 14, 2011
At least three times a week, I get a broken-hearted, frantic email from a young woman whose boyfriend has said the dreaded “I don’t know what I want” words. She has turned to the internet for answers and relief, and finds my post When He Says He Doesn’t Know What He Wants. After reading the [...]
by Kaneisha on July 14, 2011
Hello, my Crazy Girls. I want to introduce you to my friend Kate. She’s a fabulous fan of CrazyGirl Nation who is a real live therapist. She’s going to be answering reader questions weekly, giving me lots of time to work on my book and to dream up new posts for all of you. It [...]
by Kaneisha on June 28, 2011
In all of my relationships, I have struggled with the seemingly unstoppable urge to control almost every aspect of the relationship. Today, I provide advice to a reader from Sydney, Australia on how she can curb the need to control–especially since her boyfriend is a recent ex. Watch below to see what advice I give [...]
by Kaneisha on April 21, 2011
As a person of faith, you are always being watched–by other people of faith and by people who are curious and wanting to know more about your religion. It is your responsibility to live in such a way that people could look at your actions as an example and be drawn to learn more about your religion rather than reject it.
by Kaneisha on March 3, 2011
In the midst of our venting, I was able to take a step back and realize that, although we were both dealing with challenges at present, they were challenges that we both felt capable of handling, and were a result of choices we had made in the past. The problems we were presently facing had no real influence or power over our futures. If these weren’t the types of problems we wanted, we could simply make different choices going forward, and choose to have new problems…
by Kaneisha on January 20, 2011
One of the most important elements in a relationship is communication. While being able to discuss your problems, concerns, and thoughts is essential to a healthy relationship, there is an additional aspect of communication that contributes to the long-term health of a relationship. In the six months that Big and I have been back together, [...]