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December 2009

Five Things I Fear

by Kaneisha on December 7, 2009

When I begin to doubt myself, I don’t shop. I don’t do drugs. I write. Today I feel the fear creeping into my heart, so I’ll put it out there to share with the world. Five Things I Fear I’ll live an unremarkable life. I don’t want a life filled with heartbreak and drama, but [...]

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Why Men Don’t Approach You

by Kaneisha on December 6, 2009

I’ve heard beautiful women say countless times, “How am I supposed to go on dates? Men don’t even approach me!” If you’re one of those women who men seem to just look right past, this post is for you. Reasons why men don’t approach you: You are always surrounded by women. This is the most [...]

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Sharing Space with Your Man

by Kaneisha on December 5, 2009

I’ll be flying out on Friday to Los Angeles to go stay with Mr. C for five nights. It’s the longest we will have ever shared the same space. I’m actually kind of nervous! So I decided to write a post and give myself some advice. I’ve created a list of do’s and don’ts for [...]

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Which Lube is Best for Your Groove?

by Kaneisha on December 3, 2009

Sometimes, you just need some extra slip to help with your slide. After deciding I was no longer going to use any lube I could get at a drugstore (or for free in those single packets), I began a quest to find the finest lube of the land. My first stop was K-Y Liquibeads. I [...]

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What to Do When Your Boyfriend Meets Your Parents

by Kaneisha on December 3, 2009

Back in September, I invited Mr. C to come home with me for Thanksgiving. “I’ll think about it,” he said, and didn’t mention it again for two months. Then, one day, while planning out our next visit to see one another, he said, “Well, I guess I better start looking at flights to Austin for [...]

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How to Say No

by Kaneisha on December 2, 2009

Saying no is one of the most powerful things you can do for yourself. Many women have such a hard time saying no. I’m still learning how to set healthy boundaries, but here are some reasons why you should say no more, and then I’ll give you some tips on how to do it. Why [...]

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What Are You Resisting?

by Kaneisha on December 1, 2009

My very good friend Sunflower Jones is an artist. Her art is writing and the practice of yoga. That is what she was put on this Earth to do. I am an artist as well. I was put on this Earth to constantly create new things, to counsel and mentor others, and to influence people [...]

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