I just watched ur response on youtube and I 100% percent agree with what u said.Guys definitely don’t like talking on the phone too much.It’s a fact!!I’ve experienced it and whenever I talk with male friends about that,they go my way!!
As far as I’m concerned,I don’t like calling guys I’m dating everyday because I think it gets a bit boring at some point.Usually,u don’t have a lot of specific things to say,and it’s true that after 15mn usually,u start talkin about unimportant things that matter to you but that are just boring for your bf and it makes the conversation awkward cuz you feel like he wanna hung up cuz he’s bored and got enough but ur just not ready to cuz u like hearing his voice and sharing things with him,etc.
Kaneisha does have a point when she says that you should try not to call him,even if you’re dying to punch his phone number digits.When you let your bf see that he’s that indispensable to you,it makes him take you for granted and that’s not good because he may think that no matter what he’ll do,you’ll always be around.
So try to make him wait for you and long for these precious moments on the phone.I would do like K said and let him call me,at least for a week.It’s a very hard thing to do,but trust her and me,it works like crazy!!Maybe he’s gonna start calling you more often after that.
I’ve been there too and have been really wanted to call guys I was with,but decided that I would just resist,and it made the whole thing a lot lighter afterwards.You don’t want the guy to feel he must call you everyday.He won’t enjoy it anymore and will naturally stop calling.
It’s also true that a 10mn talk is better than a 1h30 one.If u know that the talk will be short,you’ll skip all the dull things and will focus on what really mattered to you during the day that you want to share with your bf.Besides,it’ll make you less invasive.
I know all these things are easy to say,but you must make efforts and stop “harassing” your bf,because it may make him fed up with your possessive behaviour.Though it’s hard to do,you’ll see the good sides of it right away and it’ll pump your relationship up,I’m sure.Good luck!!

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