Comments on: Keep It Moving and Expect Nothing http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/ Advice for Crazy Girls and the People Who Love Us! Thu, 09 Feb 2012 19:06:54 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: vanessa http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2930 vanessa Sat, 31 Dec 2011 06:56:51 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2930 do you think keep it moving and expect nothing also go for couples in serious/longer relationships? do you think keep it moving and expect nothing also go for couples in serious/longer relationships?

]]> By: Dayanara http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2925 Dayanara Sun, 18 Dec 2011 17:51:35 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2925 Thank u so much for this blog. I am going through heartache right now and your blog as well as support from friends and family is really helping me get through this. Whenever I'm feeling weak I read and re read your words. Thank u Thank u so much for this blog. I am going through heartache right now and your blog as well as support from friends and family is really helping me get through this. Whenever I’m feeling weak I read and re read your words. Thank u

]]> By: Jairus Cesarz http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2903 Jairus Cesarz Wed, 16 Nov 2011 19:09:28 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2903 I normally don't comment on things, but I couldn't help myself. I'm a communication major, and I can't help but point out how incredibly wrong most (if not all) of what you said is. If so many people weren't taking this advice to heart, I wouldn't say anything, but honestly, it's ridiculous. John Gray has no business writing anything about communication between men and women considering he doesn't have a degree in anything related to what he writes about. He is COMPLETELY wrong, as are the authors of "He's Just Not That Into You" and "Why Men Love Bitches" (also, you're really quoting a book called "Why Men Love Bitches" and basing beliefs on it?). Women aren't starry-eyed, sentimental saps, and men aren't cold, calculating players. If you would like to look into research done on this subject, I advise you look into the work of Pepper Schwartz, John Gottman, Ellen Berscheid, Susan & Clyde Hendrick, Shirley Glass, and other professionals who actually know what they are talking about. It will give you research proven information rather than what some hack wrote. It makes me incredibly sad that our population drinks in all of this crap that pop culture spews, but unfortunately comments like this are all that I can do to try to change what people think. I normally don’t comment on things, but I couldn’t help myself. I’m a communication major, and I can’t help but point out how incredibly wrong most (if not all) of what you said is. If so many people weren’t taking this advice to heart, I wouldn’t say anything, but honestly, it’s ridiculous. John Gray has no business writing anything about communication between men and women considering he doesn’t have a degree in anything related to what he writes about. He is COMPLETELY wrong, as are the authors of “He’s Just Not That Into You” and “Why Men Love Bitches” (also, you’re really quoting a book called “Why Men Love Bitches” and basing beliefs on it?). Women aren’t starry-eyed, sentimental saps, and men aren’t cold, calculating players. If you would like to look into research done on this subject, I advise you look into the work of Pepper Schwartz, John Gottman, Ellen Berscheid, Susan & Clyde Hendrick, Shirley Glass, and other professionals who actually know what they are talking about. It will give you research proven information rather than what some hack wrote. It makes me incredibly sad that our population drinks in all of this crap that pop culture spews, but unfortunately comments like this are all that I can do to try to change what people think.

]]> By: ruth http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2811 ruth Sun, 04 Sep 2011 23:26:04 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2811 love the way you see it.. you have helped me alot us woman do tend to leave our lives behind because of a man, they keep moving while your stuck trying to figure out all these things. thank you alot. love the way you see it.. you have helped me alot us woman do tend to leave our lives behind because of a man, they keep moving while your stuck trying to figure out all these things. thank you alot.

]]> By: Sabrina http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2733 Sabrina Tue, 19 Jul 2011 01:11:59 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2733 I really took this great advise! I have recently met up with an ex from13 YEARS AGO!! Sweet teenage love then! But we have grown me more successuful with high expectations for myself and others! So that sad yes I have been lonely for 3 years before we started something! Of course I fell head over heels and to moved things to fast. Again I have waited so long to have all, the happines, the strong bound and deep love I never stop to think is this person capable of giving me what I truly want and think I deserve? We have had a roller coster of unstability from him mostly and hes very self centered! For an example he will disappear from all when he is stressed and angry thats fine but at first I go crazy looking for him calling his mothers phone cause well yea he is staying with her! I know what I want and have bended allot with this one because I have got to start somewhere! I have a hard time excepting his bagage and how he cant handle daily stressors! He does need help and I just go out of it cant fix him!! I really took this great advise! I have recently met up with an ex from13 YEARS AGO!! Sweet teenage love then! But we have grown me more successuful with high expectations for myself and others! So that sad yes I have been lonely for 3 years before we started something! Of course I fell head over heels and to moved things to fast. Again I have waited so long to have all, the happines, the strong bound and deep love I never stop to think is this person capable of giving me what I truly want and think I deserve? We have had a roller coster of unstability from him mostly and hes very self centered! For an example he will disappear from all when he is stressed and angry thats fine but at first I go crazy looking for him calling his mothers phone cause well yea he is staying with her! I know what I want and have bended allot with this one because I have got to start somewhere! I have a hard time excepting his bagage and how he cant handle daily stressors! He does need help and I just go out of it cant fix him!!

]]> By: marz http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2683 marz Tue, 31 May 2011 17:52:46 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2683 i am dating a man who is 23 and im 18. We've been dating for about 4 months now. I've just gotten too serious about this guy too early and i feel as if he's started taking me for granted now. I make all the efforts for our bond to get stronger as he has a very busy schedule for himself he does say he loves me and that he wants us to be together but i dont feel the love and chemistry between us now. I want you to help me fall for me completely and make him make all the efforts now as im sick of striving to keep my love with me and to have him stay with me forever i am dating a man who is 23 and im 18. We’ve been dating for about 4 months now. I’ve just gotten too serious about this guy too early and i feel as if he’s started taking me for granted now. I make all the efforts for our bond to get stronger as he has a very busy schedule for himself he does say he loves me and that he wants us to be together but i dont feel the love and chemistry between us now. I want you to help me fall for me completely and make him make all the efforts now as im sick of striving to keep my love with me and to have him stay with me forever

]]> By: Sangita Poria http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2630 Sangita Poria Fri, 22 Apr 2011 07:39:45 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2630 I'm so full of positive energy now. I Love You for this.... My guy loves me a lot, but somewhere he have started ignoring me unknowingly , may be because I always thought of him all day n night since 3 yrs of our relationship. I know what to do now. THANK YOU SO MUCH! ♥ I’m so full of positive energy now.
I Love You for this….
My guy loves me a lot, but somewhere he have started ignoring me unknowingly , may be because I always thought of him all day n night since 3 yrs of our relationship.
I know what to do now.

THANK YOU SO MUCH!
♥

]]> By: kaey http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2603 kaey Mon, 21 Mar 2011 18:06:08 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2603 i like your blog. it's very empowering. i can't help smiling while reading it. it's like, "Hey, girlfriend, I hear you." Just what i need. :-D i like your blog. it’s very empowering. i can’t help smiling while reading it. it’s like, “Hey, girlfriend, I hear you.” Just what i need. :-D

]]> By: Chante' http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2448 Chante' Tue, 18 Jan 2011 01:48:45 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2448 Great Feedback!!! Thanks, totally makes sense!!! Great Feedback!!! Thanks, totally makes sense!!!

]]> By: Jana http://crazygirlnation.com/2009/05/keep-it-moving-and-expect-nothing/comment-page-1/#comment-2444 Jana Sat, 15 Jan 2011 15:10:48 +0000 http://kaneisha.com/?p=60#comment-2444 Very good column. Very good. :) Very good column. Very good.

:)

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